Adult ADHD: The
Magic Egg Timer Trick
by Tellman Knudson
For
people with Adult ADHD, focusing long enough to get even a small
task done--if it is boring--can seem almost impossible! Here's what
I do when I have to focus on something that I really don't like to
do, especially sitting at my desk.
Adult ADHD makes it hard to try to sit still
and do something--but now and then you just have to. Here's a couple
tricks I've learned to get boring tasks done.
First, when I come in and get started, I've
trained myself to immediately have a certain pattern of activity
that happens. My brain automatically associates that pattern of
activity with, "Now we're going to sit down and do something." It's
simply a habit. If you have Adult ADHD try this sometime you have to
do paperwork or organize something:
What I do is I come in and I have two
candles that I light. I have a certain kind of music that I listen
to, classical music. I turn that on. I turn on a little water
fountain. It is important for people with Adult ADHD to make sure to
engage all the senses, it really helps because it keeps the Adult
ADHD brain active and able to focus.
Whenever I do that sequence, I can sit down
for a short period, not forever, but for a short period, and
actually get something done that I don't like to do.
I can organize a pile, or try to prioritize
something, or something that might be hard as well. Another
advantage to getting all those senses involved is the brain is at
least doing something else and not focusing on being bored.
There's nothing worse for the Adult ADHD
brain than focusing on how bored you are.
There is second method that I use, and that
is to set a self-imposed deadline.
Often people with Adult ADHD say they work
best "under pressure" when they have a deadline--and some people
with Adult ADHD even say they can't get anything done at all if they
don't have a deadline. What happens to Adult ADHD people in that
case is, they perform well at work (where deadlines are imposed) but
things fall apart at home.
So here's the other trick I've learned,
using an egg timer. See if you can do this. Make it like a game.
"Hey, let's see if I can get through this pile in 15 minutes. I'll
set a timer" This is one of the best tricks for us people with Adult
ADHD.
I have two egg timers around my house and I
use them all the time. I test myself. "Let's see if I can file this
pile of paper in 10 minutes." I set the timer and go. Now, we've
just invoked the real kicker: to focus. It works like a charm.
So, you're kicking it into high gear,
working on mea-speed, and most of the time it works, but what
if...you don't finish it in 10 minutes? Then what?
Well, then I look at that and say, "Do I
want to go for another 10, or do I want to do this later?" That's
what I do. Either way, I got a whole bunch done in 10 minutes that
wouldn't have been done otherwise.
That brings me to one more thing people with
Adult ADHD will benefit from doing. We're so forward thinking that
we're always onto the next thing, and the next thing. Those with
Adult ADHD tend not to look at what they do accomplish and feel good
about it.
If you take a moment to say, "Look what I
just did in 10 minutes," and actually reflect on, "Hey, I got
something done," versus going through to the next thing immediately,
you'll feel a lot more motivation on a continuing basis.
If you'd like to get more great tips for how
to focus with Adult ADHD, using common things you find in your
everyday environment, see below!
About the Author
Tellman Knudson is certified in Hypnotherapy
and Neurolinguistic Programming. He is CEO of Overcome Everything
and the creator of Hyperfocus, the program that helps people with
ADD and ADHD take charge of their lives and financial destiny. Go to
http://www.adhdgenius.com to
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